Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Tune into your gut to tune up your body!




Recently I have been doing a lot of thinking about a lot of things that affect my life and indirectly the lives of others from a holistic point of view.

I know how to use food as tools to carve and build a physique.

I also know how to use training, rest and recovery methods as tools to reach the targeted goal.

Though my goals, I am learning much about the body. I am also learning that there is still much to learn about the body. Most of all I am learning the importance of trying new methods, and also the importance of challenge current methods.

The body is an amazing machine. No one can argue this concept. We push it hard, and we demand for more. We often empty the tank on many levels, and often we fail to stop and fill that tank and then we expect and demand to get new results. Do we achieve? I would say at first glance the answer is yes. I am a walking example testament to prove that it can be done. However there is always a hidden cost; there is a fine print of sorts, and this fine print I want to navigate your attention.

The body is resilient, but it is not indestructible. You can push it to new limits, and I suggest that everyone test and challenged their preconceived limits..this is good for both you body and your mind...however there are limits, and we must value and respect our health as we push our bodies to extreme.

I have pushed my body to the extreme, and though it was most rewarding, I know now the importance of pausing to give back to my body. I know the importance of not looking at the goal from a tunnel vision. I know the importance of change, and I also know the importance of being continually active with our resources as we carve a goal from a holistic view and action. Holistically it is important to keep health as the over all objective as we push mentally, physically and also spiritually. Some people battle with not pushing themselves at all, while others battle with pushing themselves too much; both are equally dangerous. Holistically is a foundation to achieve all goals from being planted from all parts of self; it is both extremely difficult but extremely rewarding.

So how does this all filter into the tile? Tune into your gut to tune into your body? Well it is about active listening. It is about knowing your body and listening to the needs of the body. If you are truly tired, then truly rest. If you are truly hungry, then truly eat. If your gut is saying it wants a specific type of food, then feed it that specific type of food as the body is telling what it needs nutritionally, and is trying to provide for the body's basic needs holistically to restore balance and optimal health.

So truly here has a boxed definition. It means not to make decisions based on justifications, but to make decisions based on education, and based on our insight. If you feel like pizza, it is not because of a true need, and it does not fall under decisions based on education and insight. If you are craving fats, then eat healthy fats. To simplify, and tune into your body from a nutritional point of view, take a walk in your local grocery store and walk around the perimeter. The perimeter you will find the 'non-packaged/process foods'.....by walking near those foods, does a specific food scream at you? If so there is probably a deficiency in your body that that food will provide.

To take the message even further, I recently had a few health issues that were a result of my competitive goals and pushing my body to new limits....therefore the pendulum swing and therefore hormonal imbalances. It is to be expected even with the best planning. I tend to follow a plan to a T, and I tend to like a plan where I must follow to a T. Through my experience however I have learned to listen to the body, and trust the body beyond the print of the black and white. I must factor this into my planning, into my goals, into my progressions as i press towards my next target. My body recently craved oils, and one evening I came home and ate a large amount of salmon and countless amount of nuts AND within two days of following my gut to restore balance, one of my hormonal imbalances was corrected. Again, recently my body have been craving apples one day and then another day raspberries, and I use the analogy of being dehydrated and drinking water...when dehydrated the water is sucked into the body, and likewise eating those apples and raspberries my body was hydrated to restore balance nutritionally and holistically.

I challenge you to take a walk. I challenge you to take a walk with your gut taking the lead. Go the your grocery store, and walk the perimeter and use your gut as your radar to find foods that trigger a nutritionally deficiency in your body, and then use those foods to tune up your body with a holistic approach of knowing and listening to self.

Food, within the box of truly, can truly do the body very good.

Does your body need some tuning?

The body will tell you what it needs if you listen to it.

Pick up perhaps a variety of new nuts. I just recently added 4 new types of nuts to my diet and each night I had a g-flux as a result. Who knew that something as simple as a different type of nut the body would create a metabolic response? Again it ties nicely with the saying, 'the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting new results'...do new, get new.

Perhaps the fruits will be your section, or veggies that are dark green or maybe rich is color. What about the meat section. Red meat perhaps? Hmn, how are those iron levels? How about the dairy? Yes, even dairy. Cottage cheese is a slow releasing protein, and if you are one of those types that does well with dairy...take a walk in that section and check out kefir while you are there.

Listen....

Listen to your gut, and fill your gut by tuning it to tune up and restore balance, wellness and hormonal health that will fuel all your goals with a holistic success.

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Friday, November 20, 2009

Lift Heavy - Lift Often - Lifting does the body...the mind....and the spirit....very good!



“There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.” ~John Andrew Holmer~

Love this quote! Love it so much that though I need to be running right now to get in an abs session and meet some people to do the dang stairs, I just had to stop and pause to share this quote with you.

Exercise I love. I love my sport because it is hard and in a weird way because it is hard it is also fun.

Heaving lifting in the gym fills my cup.

However, as many of you already know, that this sport that I do...or anything thing else that I choose to do...all ties back to my greater love of people and helping people at their core...to touch their spirit.....and this excites me in a way that literally gives me more to come back to the gym and actually lift more.

This quote captures it ALL. Truly when we put others above self, at the same time loving self, but extending a hand...an ear.....to help bridge the gap....so people move from feeling 'fine' in their lives to feeling fire in their lives....and by giving from the heart, the yield to our heart is always much greater than our giving.

So, on that note...I must indeed run...to lift literal heavy yes, but also figuratively that also has a very literal feel to it....as there is an action...an action to lend an ear, a hand....or a voice.....to provide a distraction.....to be an element of fun.....to hopefully provide something in another that comes from my gifts that are planted at heart.....

Exercise does feel great. Exercise does great things for the heart...of others...and of self.


Get active....a heart awaits.....yours ;-)

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Monday, November 9, 2009

Blog for a Cause - Fitness and Spice




There is a great website that I would like each of you to check out.
The site is actually called, Fitness and Spice, and the link you will
be able to find at the end. However before you go there I would like to take you there mentally. Meaning? I would like to touch base with something within you before you go there on your own.

Two amazing women have teamed, and their teamed efforts have created
something great that affects you as it affects I.

However, do not take my word, but do yourself a favor and check it out
for yourself. I do however want want you to click on the link 'blog
for a cause' within the site. Please find this link. Within this link
what has happened is many bloggers, myself included, donated pieces to
create an e-book entitled 'blog for a cause' to raise money for breast
cancer. I am thrilled to be part of such an 'extended hand' out reach;
however my contribution is insignificant to this very worthy cause. We
all know of people in our circles that have been hit by this horrible
disease; breast cancer does not play favorites. It is important that
we all do a little that collectively will do a lot; collectively all
of our giving will touch each of us directly or indirectly within our
circles.

If you are curious, my contribution is on page 187, and the title is
'Check your engine light'; there are 200 articles within this e-book
and all I promise you that each read will touch the core of you 200
times or more.

Again, please take the time to check out the site. Please also take
the time to donate...a little, or a little more...as no amount is too
little and know that all amounts culminate, and let that culmination
goal be your focus if you are hesitant.

Know also that all giving always yields a higher return. I can
guarantee the stories within will fill something needed and necessary
within you. So take the time to give, and take the time to enjoy your
yield.

I would also appreciate if you click on the forward button and pass
these words and this request to all those within your circles.

The blog site is called Fitness and Spice; allow it to sprinkle your
day and ferment your life. Allow it to sprinkle the health in the days and ferment the lives of others.

Kindest regards,
Renee

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Monday, November 2, 2009

LIFE....sure looks good to me


Hats off to the very beautiful, talented, insightful and articulate Alicia Keys.

This has been my song. It has been a song that has given me purpose and strength.

At times I have held on to these words and her message tightly.

Today I feel the need to share..

Enjoy..

Talent and insight come together to give you a beautiful strength...

Life...it indeed looks good...

When at points it does not feel so good...

remember always....

Your purpose...your journey.....and the significance of all moments....

Life...it sure looks good to me ; )

Enjoy the song...

Enjoy the messages...

Enjoy YOUR messages....

Most of all, hold on, and enjoy the ride....

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Wrapping up a 'wrap up' 2009 Season with Thanks


Wrapping up a 2009 Figure, physique competitor, with achieving the goal to Nationals with a thankful heart.

On the surface I am in off season as I have completed my competitive goal for 2009; a goal of going to Nationals. The year has been very intense and a bumpy road of sorts, but like any roller coaster, these sorts of rides are the best and most memorable rides..at the park, and yes even at the heart.

I have learned the importance of reflection when wrapping up a pause point in my life; I have also learned the importance of thankfulness as no one journeys alone. Without my core people and the hands on support, I know that my achievements would be very different on many essential levels.

On the surface I am on off season; however with my next goal, there is no off season. I embrace these next steps. This will be a great season as it will also be very different. Each time there are new challenges that go far beyond the surface goal; however I have learned much on an inward level that i could not otherwise have learned without the surface goal; though often they were many difficult moments, the rewards by enduring each of those moments are worth the growing pains along the way.

I also embrace all my blessings, and I am fortunate to have many. I can say whole heatedly that I would not been able to make the same accomplishments had I had tried to achieve the goal on my own. People need people. I need people. I am thankful for my people.

Who then are these people?

There are many, and again on the surface they may of provided a need that falls into a specific category, but again nothing is ever what it seems. The specific category were the vehicles for our meeting, yet our meetings became the avenue of deeper connections and were often gift moments.

I must thank my coach Francis Manias, Physique Coach Physique, Fitness and Nutrition, whom constantly coached me from my ground zero and holistically scaffolded all my protocols so that my body, my mind and my spirit was nurtured and strengthened. Frances is exceptional at her craft; she is both extremely knowledgeable, and her insightful ability to connect to the core of her client puts her in a class of her own. Like any client and coach relationship, my heart is full of unspoken gratitude. Thank you for each session, all the moments between the sessions, for your great spirit and sense of humor, for your constant 'above and beyond'; above it all France, thank you for being that 'constant'.

I must also thank Kvedaras Chiropractic & ART in Hamilton (905.527.6250). Aras is indeed a miracle worker! The entire staff truly has the heart of their clients first and foremost. Aras went above and beyond, and without his help I would never of been able to be stage ready. Aras worked directly with my protocols and my coach; it truly was a team approach. Each visit there was the 360 degree treatment where my nutrition, supplementation, rest and recovery, training, and cortisol levels were discussed and visited. As an athlete, this kind of treatment is valued as our vision often becomes tunneled and it is important to have people that can help steer our success. Aras has the heart of his clients in his focus, and my heart is thankful for having his skills and his friendship as a part of my team.

Andrea McKeen, from Cutting Edge, I MUST thank you. Each time I sat in your chair it was a time when I could mentally hit cruise control. You are talented, skilled, and have this great contagious energy. Details do matter greatly on the stage, and you have the ability to tap into my personality and create the hair that really brings that extra to the stage. I must also interject an appreciation that you accommodated me into your very demanding schedule; I do not take your time or efforts for granted. Truly these final steps are the 'icing' as such; I thank you for creating the environment where I can zen and breath in the leading up moments, and take the time to think about the final upcoming moments. Andrea is a rockstar all the way to her core; truly quality as a person and truly quality in her field. Thank you does not seem enough, but do know Andrea that those words mean more than words.

I would also like to thank Herc nutrition on upper james. The team there have created that family type service where each visit it is not about selling a product, but about addressing my needs....a name....a person.....my need. Each visit has been consistent; each time great personal service and a service to help my success. Herc's on upper james rocks, and I thank you!!

Marna Charron, ConfidentCreations.com, is someone that any competitor needs on their team. I went to Marna for suit alterations, and how she transformed my suits so that they were comfortable, so that they could be worn where I felt my best on stage, and her attention to bringing more detail to the suit, well...she is truly outstanding. Marna is both outstanding in her skills, services and customer rapport. I did not leave her studio until we were both happy with both suits; I did not leave until we were both 100 percent happy with the suits...there is a difference. There is above and beyond, and then there is 'Marna version of above and beyond'. Due to the timing constraints of having to be at a meeting, and Marna's dedication to creating exceptional products, Marna drove to my hotel and spent a large amount of time working on the details of my suits. Marna has class, style, spunk and a vision that all competitors will want on their team; I am personally very thankful that I had her on my team....what she did for my suits, nothing short from amazing...what she did to my spirit leading up to the final moments....nothing short of essential and timely. Thanks you Marna...Marna, another rockstar!!

I must also thank the very graceful and beautiful Nina Luchka, IFBB Figure Pro and can be found via www.Fitness-Fox.com, whom did my professional tanning application and professional make-up. Outstanding! Again details do matter in my sport and her skills and ability make a significant difference to my package presentation. Nina has an exceptional amount of grace that touches the spirit; she is not easily forgotten for her physical beauty, but also very her inner beauty. Thanks to you and yours Nina!

Again I must thank my husband who is my greatest support, who knows the cost of giving. Without him I could not do what I love to do. Also my boys, both are my biggest fans, as they are my focus and my greatest strength.

Again I must also thank my inner circle. Krista for being what i needed when I needed it. Collette, Craig, Kerenza for holistic words that motivated holistic actions. For each of my clients, family, many other friends, and the support from the Precision Nutrition Community whom I collectively took your support and your from moment to moment and even the steps leading onto the stage.

So the season is wrapping up, but it is one that simultaneously unwraps a new season. I am looking forward to the next competition. However as I do take these next steps, I am taking them with grateful and thankful heart. I am thankful as each of you have given something to strengthen my next steps...where our meeting did indeed fill a purpose, but through our meeting a not so obvious greater purpose was filled...and I am thankful for the both..

Philippians 4:13

Monday, September 21, 2009

Taking the next step to Nationals





I will write much more about the experience from the Mind, Body, and Spirit POV within the next few days...

However, I did want to pop in here to share a snippet...

I completed ALL my goals to the stage.

Leaner (Probably 124 lbs the day of the show..note a few months ago I was 150 lbs and my last crazy ab contest I was about 128 lbs in april...also note that I was not suppose to 'peak' until this sat coming.....so check on the leaner goal ).

Much more symmetry. I noticed on the pics, but also many others who have followed my journey from stage to stage. My body continues to carve and transform. Still much more work to do; however in the window of time and opportunity I accomplished my set goal of more delts, gluts and legs. Of course the target keeps moving...however for a moment i pause and in that moment I also click check...

Posing, flow and grace on the stage was my previous greatest demon. This was my highest goal and this one is close to my best achievement this contest. I worked hard in this area, and for the first time not only did I feel prepared, but I enjoyed bringing my personality into each step on the stage to sell the 'package' to my audience and the judges. It was important to make a connection that went beyond the physique, and this was a big personal accomplishment. Again, one that i still view as a work in progress, but the gains I made on this level was closest to my highest gains.

So, what was my highest gains? I stayed in tack. Meaning? I did not lose the essence of all that culminate 'me' in my progressions, and in the precomp weeks....and to the stage...the steps on the stage and the steps leading off the stage. This is a massive personal accomplishment. One that I value above all others as previously I took many detours and made many unnecessary sacrifices leading to the comp where I was a shell of myself on the stage. I reflected and acknowledged my many blessings in my final moments. I took all my many blessings to the stage. I am nothing without these blessings. My key relationships define me, and I am very proud to say they are the essence of me...and I need each of them to be the very best possible version of me....and that day I not only acknowledged, but I felt deep appreciation on an emotional levels for the enhancement value of these core relationships to my life..which filters from the spiritual, to the mental and transcends to the physical.

I have a great team, and I will acknowledge each of those in the justice they deserve in a later posting. However for now I must acknowledge my husband, whom is my greatest strength and without his many selfless sacrifices I could never do what I love to do. My two boys, I do this in part for them, but in part I could not do it without them. A great friendship with Krista, whom wears many hats to help me achieve all my goals yet her greatest hat is the umbrella hat of a 'rare' friendship. My coach Frances who knew how to coach me...and I say this with a laughing heart as I am not one that is so easy to coach, yet she knew the importance of laughter, insight, and my spiritual needs and she scaffold coaching to address all my ground zero's; she is my coach, but again very important acknowledgment..she is also a great friend....there are two others very wonderful friendships that kicked me when needed and gave me clarity and a shoulder to lean on for a moment when needed, and respectfully I will acknowledge them without naming them.

So, the verdict?

Check on all of the goals.

Check on next step 'the nationals'..

3rd Place for Figure Tall. It felt great. The girl whom placed 1st rightfully place 1st. It was a honor to share the stage with great physiques and this competition was an all around healthy competition.

So today I pause. I am breathing in the moments. I am taking a week to do whatever...I am looking forward to the fall season and yes, even the winter season. I am looking forward to making some other achievements in my life that are not on the physique level. I am also looking forward to spending more family time together. I am also looking forward to then next competition day....though I am not in any rush. My goals are much higher this time around. I am not going to walk on the stage for the experience, but rather as a time to achieve higher goals. This will be carved out later this week and from there I will either decide this spring to the Nationals or a year later. The point of the next step is to achieve the goal, and I must factor in timing to build and create, and also factor in time to balance the body hormonally so that I am healthy and whole once again to the stage.

Final thoughts?

Thank you...each of you....for following me on my journey, for your encouragement...and for sharing all my moments...the good, the bad, and yes often the ugly; however the common thread to all is to bridge the gap. That regardless of the individual goal, that we all have the human factor and that factor is that for each of us the road to success is difficult...it is often very difficult....but it is achievable, and in those very difficult moments we have an opportunity to learn and to make choices that will upgrade our lives in a way that is lasting and meaningful....and yes, it does filter into the potential gains on a physique level......

The physique comes and goes...the memories and the exchanges within along the way, those are the ones that are lasting...those are the ones that are our greatest trophy.....those are the ones that we fight for in each moment...each day....sometimes solo, but also with our blessing relationships along the way....

A great quote that came into my path today that I am stealing, and I will share with you today....

Happiness doesn't diminish by being shared" Dali Lama

So, my heart is full of happiness. For achieving my goal to the next level yes, but please look beyond that to see the why I do what I do and the not so hidden reasons that have very little to do with the 'surface gains'.....and see why my heart is truly happy....it is because of my greatest gain that I shared openly with you here today, and I celebrate my 'people' in my life...as I am blessed...

Monday, September 7, 2009

The Trophy


If you are receiving this email, then you have touched my life in one way or another. My sending this personal share to you is because I want to share something that is very close to my heart; it is the essence of who I am and why I do what I do. Often one side of my brain wrestles with the other of choices I make, or the time I give, walking a path that is unknown, or even the purpose of my vulnerability.

Everything that I do is about bridging the gap. No one should feel alone. We all have a responsibility to be our very best as we also have a responsibility to help others be their best.

I have been very reflective as of late. The heart sees a vision for self, and the heart see the vision of self with others. The battle continues but there are days when there are check points. Days when the surprise email is in the in box, or a tearful face to face conversation with a friend, with a client, or with a completely stranger that the steps that I made on my unbeaten path or my points of vulnerability has healed something necessary within another is my check point that I am on course when often I feel I have no compass.

One such moment was just exchange within the precision nutrition community…and this moment, at a place of continual vulnerability, I share with you….

It begins with a standard checking in with the community…letting them know my status quo as I gear up to contest day…I moved from a check list to a check list from the heart…and from there my heart was touched…and I share this with you, to encourage you to do the same….instead of being a builder of walls, be a builder of self…be a builder of others….

Coles Notes Version Update
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Two weeks and a bit and it is 'D' day...

Right now my preparation is practically a full time job.

I have reduced my workload for the next few weeks and taking the final week off completely to be able to give all that is required.

Currently I am doing AM steady state progressive cardio. Started at 20 minutes and increase 2 mins each day. Currently i am at 31 minutes.

I am also doing a rotation of double training in addition to the cardio with a 3 days on and 1 day off.

12 minutes post training cardio each session.

Within my day I am also posing as much as possible...wherever.....home, gym...between sets...eyes on....eyes off....does not matter.

Sauna protocols min 3 times weekly.

ART weekly plus meeting with my coach for assessments.

Nightly Epsom salts baths with exfoliation.

Meditation and reflection.

Research.

Practicing isolation posing. Targeting the triceps for example.

And then many more 'to do's' such as suit alterations appointments, spa type appointments.....to making time with my family which literally feeds my spirit..as I am limiting whom I spend time with outside my family (those in my inner circle) / as right now it is important to be surrounded by energy sources to propel me as I am literally tapped out and have little to pour out, but need others to pour into me so that each moment within each day I have excitement, but also the absolute energy required to continue do my difficult.

I have to say that this time around I am reflective of my blessings. Core friendships, my husband and boys that are my greatest support (team mommy), and my coach Frances that culminate a holistic backdrop in every protocol and each mental step leading up to this point. I have been blessed and I will take 'my blessings' with me as I step onto the stage. I have learned much, and though this interim from last contest to this upcoming contest has been much mental discomfort, I have upgraded my life as a result of staring into my goal, and having to go into the haunting places within until they no longer are haunting. As I have said many times, the body comes and the body goes, but it is the transformation within that is constant and it is continual; and it is this inward transformation that links me to you....and hopefully you to others......so all our dots connect, and the picture is one that individually we could never create or envision.

So, there you have it....the coles notes version.

Much to do...and the day has begun....

Response…..
the laser point . . .
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Among the many inspiring things about you, Renee, is the whole body/mind/heart and soul that you put into your growth, on every level. Even more inspiring is that you take on what is "hard" in a way that honors each of those parts of you...

Physical recovery, pulling back from strain into flow with low level cardio, lower level training, posing becoming part of the way you move in a day whenever and wherever, sauna and other recovery methods scheduled into the time you have.. it is time for growing the flow, and preparing it to show well . . . and it cannot help to be so.

Emotional recovery, without apology for needing to be poured into, and the humility to say... "I have very little to give right now" as you come down the home stretch. This is not an easy matter for most of us women especially, especially those with families and fullness in relationships.

Spiritual recovery, heart and soul given room, space off from work, space in which to enter into meditation, reflection, emptying out extraneous and room for expanding and growth. Always growing.

Containing and focusing your energy like a laser at this point, with the emotional freedom from within to do that, developed over the time of transformation, inspires

I do not flatter, never learned how to do that actually. Or why. I just see in you how you work with those aspects that we all have, aspects of life that "pull" on us, or so it feels, many that are close to our hearts, and sometimes when it's time for laser-focus, there is not room for them all... so you choose what is essential. Which requires knowing what IS essential.

It is that freedom to choose, to choose out of knowing what is true and real, that carries you with such grace into these two weeks, and through all the gut and butt busting training sessions, the nutritional expansion and depletion that have come before... filling this interim time when I have followed along with you.

I so appreciate how you face the things that some might say are "too hard" and walk right into them, simple but not easy. You don't look for easy much. It is not our bodies that get in the way, it is our minds, our whines, our half-measures. We are not too different, but you do it with so much more grace and simplicity.
Or so it seems
I will get there, it's happening . . . slowly.
Thanks for keeping us a part of your transformations. The physical alone, is amazing.

Has anyone ever told you btw, that you are not genetically equipped for this kind of transformation? HA!

Thanks for showing us... don't believe half of what you hear...

My response….

Tears are actually flowing down my face here.

Note that I am not the type that cries.

This is a rare moment.

This is a needed moment.

My tears have many meanings.

Know they are a trophy of such; the kind that is not visible, but the kind that is felt...the kind that truly matters.

So I thank youfor stepping out and sharing from the heart. As a heart on this end, with a virtual world that separates us both...know that you left a fingerprint on my core with your words that came from a place of vulnerability and a place of heart.

This HERE....this is what life is all about..